A Brief Shining Moment

Today was such a fun day. We started off with a concert at the high school – Dot performed with the jazz band and had her first solo and did AWESOME!!! – and then we headed out to Metamora (a cute little Christmas town in Indiana). Even though there were the usual little reminders and stresses over “look with your eyes, not with your hands” everyone got along and we played games at the park and climbed trees. It was just a wonderful day… which brings me to the main point of this (rather long?) post: While today was a wonderful day without a lot of trouble or drama it was not a normal day.
In fact, it was quite out of the ordinary. I tend to focus on happy positive things – mainly because I think life is better when we accentuate the positive and focus on all the amazing blessings we have. But that can tend to make it appear like we have it together all the time. Someone once told me that we must have so much fun as a family at home and that they could see how much we loved each other. I remember thinking about that morning where there had been multiple arguments and fights. The day before where I had completely lost it with my kids and how up to that one very precise happy moment it kind of felt like a war zone in our home.
So, here is the thing – life is hard. It has its good moments, it’s bad moments, it’s gorgeous moments and it’s phantom-of-the-opera-ugly-scary-face moments. Raising a child with severe ADHD is not easy, pretty or even fun, nor is raising a teenager, pre-teen, grade-school aged, preschool aged, toddler aged, or infant aged child – even when they are as amazing as ours (because despite their and our many faults, they are amazing). At any point you could probably stand outside our house and hear yells and screams – not the happy kind – coming from within our walls – and, I’m rather embarrassed to say – sometimes it’s me. Sometimes I catch myself stuck in pitty mode saying if only… if only Lizy were still here everything would be better – which is hogwash because we would still have the same problems, the same issues, the same horrible, rotten, very bad no good days. And sometimes those days turn into weeks and longer. Oh sure, there are good spots, but sometimes the good spots can be overwhelmed by the bad ones and I have to work really hard to find them.
Sometimes life feels so hard I can hardly breathe and I just want to be done. Sometimes it feels hard and I feel “I can do this!” Sometimes it’s scary and I’m terrified. Sometimes I’m brave. Sometimes it’s stressful and overwhelming. Sometimes I feel like “I’ve got this”. Sometimes I feel lost and utterly alone. Sometimes I feel purposeful. Sometimes I feel like a total failure. Sometimes I feel like a million bucks. I love my children and often feel they are the most amazing people on the planet and sometimes they are terrors and I hide from them because I’m tired of dealing.
This post isn’t meant to be a feel sorry for me post, or wow she’s awesome post… This post is to say we are normal everyday people with ups and downs. Our friends are normal everyday people with ups and downs and even the seemingly perfect and amazing spiritual giants that we strive to emulate are normal everyday people with ups and downs. Sometimes it’s easy to look at someone and say “wow, they are so strong, incredible, inspirational” – what have you, and it’s easy to compare your weak moments with someone’s shining moments. But when it all comes down to it, we’re all mucking our way along in the trenches of everyday life and dealing with challenges in one unglamorous way or another while trying to keep our faces to the light. And because of that, days like today, the rare gem in the pig-sty of life are greatly cherished. And at the end of the day, week, month, year – if you’re really taking tally, the good actually does out-weight the bad.
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Homecoming

Dot’s senior year and Emily’s sophomore year! I didn’t get a picture of the girls together since Dot and her date went out before with a group of friends. Em and her good friend, Chase met a bunch of their friends at the dance ๐Ÿ™‚

So first here’s Dot & her date, Jackson, with her group of friends….

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Emily, since she’s not old enough to go on an official date yet, went with her good friend, Chase, and they met up with a bunch of their friends at the dance.

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Neither Dot or Em are girly girls – though Em by far is the more rough and tumble in the pair. It’s quite rare that Em will trade her denim & cammo in for a dress – especially a fancy dress complete with make-up & jewlery! (she’ll do dress or skirts on Sunday but that is about it).

When she came downstairs tonight James exclaime, “Wow! Em, you look like a lady!” and Robert proclaimed, “You beautiful Em!” (I’m sure the boys would have had similar reactions to Dot but I don’t know that they saw her before she left, and she was probably glad since they would have teased her about going on a date as all little brothers do ๐Ÿ˜€ )

Any way, this next collage sums it all up…

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Nativity

The first peg doll set I painted was a nativity for my husband one year when finances were tight and I was grasping at any idea to do something special for him. Not long ago a friend suggested selling a nativity in my etsy shop along with my chess sets & play sets. I decided to follow her advice and today I completed & listed a nativity set available in three different sizes. Below are some pictures. If you are interested in seeing more feel free to check out my Facebook Page ย or my etsy store directly: WoodenPlaytime

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Check out this amazing author & book!!

My very close & amazing friend, Donna Fuller, has published her 2nd book! Her first, Strand of Doubt, is a wonderful, clean romantic suspense & her 2nd, Code Name Scorpion, follows suit. While both are stand alone reads, Code Name Scorpion features a few characters from her first book. ย Her characters are engaging and lovable, and I love her use of humor and suspense.

Check out Code Name Scorpion on Amazon! ย 

When Trevor Willis offers Dani Carpenter her dream job as director of a new camp for children, she is thrilled. Dani intends to keep Trevor, a family friend and confirmed bachelor, at armโ€™s length. But her heart changes toward him as they team up to protect Ady, the young daughter of a kidnapped scientist. After Trevor testifies against the son of Don Francisco Morales, a major supplier of heroin into the United States, Morales (aka the Scorpion) targets Trevor in a personal vendetta to destroy his reputation and then destroy everyone Trevor loves. With Ady tucked away in a secure location, Dani and Trevor embark on a chase that takes them from the forests of the Pacific Northwest to the jungles of Mexico. They must stop the Scorpion before he strikes again.

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I Tote-ally Made a Tote!

A few days ago I was faced with a dilemma. I had bought fabric to make a pencil roll for my 72 prisma color pencils – but I got to thinking that would be a pretty big roll and maybe I should make a tote that would fit my journaling stuff (and maybe even more!) I thought long & hard and decided to go with a tote.

I didn’t have a pattern but I had a few ideas & a bag I wanted it to be generally patterned after. ย I was really worried a number of time that my mathematics would be way off and that the whole thing would be scrapped, but after only having to pick out stitches a couple times, I wound up with a finished product that I actually like!

I went with denim because I had a bunch of it on hand & frogs because…. well because I love frogs! ๐Ÿ™‚Collage2

The two front pockets can hold my erasers or other odds & ends. Once it is flipped open there are mini pockets to hold my pencils – all 72 fit! And a nice big pocket that holds my journal, smaller drawing pen/pencil roll, pencils sharpener & whatever else I want/need. On the back is a fold-out pocket (with a secret pocket behind it). When the fold-out pocket is open I have slots to store all of my pens.

Now instead of throwing everything into a bag and having to juggle pencil trays or pencil bags, etc, I have everything all in one easy to see place.

It’s definitely not perfect (I could never sew a totally straight line…. EVER), but I am thrilled with the end result!

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Making a Chess Set – Super Heroes Vs. Villains

My first sell on Etsy was a Super Heroes Vs. Villains chess set, so I decided to take some pictures of the process. If you decide you are interested in ordering one or taking a look at the other sets I have made (Star Wars, Harry Potter, & Lord of the Rings) click on the link: WoodnPlaytime

If you want a chess set and have an idea for something I haven’t made – contact me and we’ll see what we can come up with!

I order the plain peg people as a set and start with base coats. As the base coats dry I add in details as you can see. The bigger pieces are 3 9/16 inches tall where the pawns are only 1 1/8 inches tall. The Super Heroes Vs Villains is one of the hardest sets I paint because each piece is different and there are a lot of details to get on even the smallest pieces. Each piece is painted on the bottom – Heroes I did yellow and Villains I did red – & labeled with it’s name.

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Once all the pieces are done I start to work on the board. My awesome hubby cuts the board down to size for me and after it’s sanded I varnish it. Once the varnish is dry I measure and grid the board with a pencil. In the past I have just hand painted, trying my best to do clean straight lines – this time I got smart and taped the board off. I love how it turned out. I still had to hand paint some of the edge lines though.

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Once the board is done I sew a couple bags to hold the pieces. I like finding fabric that fits the chess set theme when possible – I was thrilled to find these two contrasting patterns. ย I put the villains in the gray bag and the heroes in the blue – but the customer can bag them however they like.

This particular set is about to be shipped off – my first Etsy store order! Woohoo! But it is listed in my store – it takes 3-5 weeks to get these painted because of the detail, etc, so think ahead if your interested! My other small sets take 2-4 weeks and the big 4 player Harry potter set takes 4-6 weeks.

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To the Northeast & back…

One of the wonderful things about growing up on our little farm in western Pennsylvania was how close we were to history. Luckily I had amazing parents who made the effort to take us kids on camping trips to see these amazing places. I have always wanted to be able to do that for my children, and when we moved to Ohio seven years ago, that became a real possibility and this year was the year! We wanted to be sure that Dorothy had a chance to see all these amazing places before graduating next year (yikes!) and taking off to college.

This will be another LONG post and the collages barely scratch the surface as far as pictures and the fun we had, but I expect anyone reading this will want to be done sometime within the next century, so…..

We started by driving to a state park in Pennsylvania near Gettysburg – actually we started with a broken radiator as we started the van and went to leave our driveway… then after lots of prayer & an amazing friend who helped Paul quickly put a new radiator in we were finally on our way. We got in super late, but our tent is a fast set up (yay!) and Day 2 we hit Gettysburg. We got an audio tour CD and everyone – even the younger ones – loved all the history and learning about things as we drove from place to place. We had lots of breaks to walk around and learn. We had a thunderstorm or two and watched a couple demonstrations. I am so grateful for those who sacrificed so much to give us what we have today (and for those who continue to sacrifice for us today by serving in the military or as police officers/fire fighters/ etc.

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Day 3- After another very rainy night we packed up camp and drove to Valley Forge. We obtained another audio CD and drove, explored and learned about George Washington, his troops, and the revolutionary war. We set up camp not to far from Valley Forge and got ready for another rainy night (things were feeling rather damp all around by now.)

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Day 4 we drove into Philadelphia. We were pretty worried about finding parking that would fit our van, but quickly found an open air lot only a few blocks from the Independence National Park Visitor center. The boys by now started to figure out that all these National Parks we were visiting had Jr Ranger programs and were fast becoming obsessed with earning as many badges as they could – we didn’t have time for them to earn it at every location we went, but they earned them at most places. It was pretty cool because it really helped them learn as they went. They also discovered the rangers had trading cards featuring historical people and places and really had fun collecting those as well. Not only were we able to see the liberty bell and visit Independence Hall, but we toured the United States Mint and visited the Benjamin Franklin museum. There was so much more we could have done, but we only had the one day. We packed it as full as we could and trudged back, exhausted, to another rainy night at the campground.

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Day 5 we drove North to our campground just past Boston. On the way we stopped at Morristown National Historic Park – where George Washington and his men spent two winters – and got to tour the home where he had his headquarters. We had lunch at Fort Nonsense. By the time we got to our campground we were slated for pretty massive thunderstorms so we all just slept in the van – Paul still set up the tent though and he wound up in there at some point during the night.

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Day 6 – We finally had Sunshine! We hallelujahed our way to the subway and treated the kids to their first Subway experience into Boston. It was fun and they really enjoyed it and we enjoyed not having to drive or figure out parking (Boston drivers are nuts!). We walked the freedom trail visiting the Old State House and site of the Boston Massacre, Fenuille Hall, Paul Revere’s Home, Old North Church, The navy yard touring the USS CassinYoung & the USS Contsitution – “Old Ironsides”. We were planning on doing Bunker Hill when thunderstorms hit and our sun dissappeared. We were feeling rather exhausted, so once the rain abated some we started to head to the subway, realized that it was 5:00 and rush hour, so we veared off and spent two hours exploring Beacon Hill and the Boston Commons. We finally caught the subway back and, in the name of sanity, grabbed Little Caesars pizza for everyone for dinner on our way back to the campground. Luckily the sun came back out and we had our first dry night – woohoo!

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Day 7 we did Lexington & Concord – it was a gorgeous day! We started with the video at the Minute Men National Historic Park Visitor Center which was absolutely AMAZING. And then walked a good portion of the old road between Lexington and Concord. The kids kept ambushing each other along the way and “dying” in the road. heh. As we drove to Concord I was met with a special treat – I forgot that this was where Louisa May Alcott and many other famous authors lived so I squealed like a fan-girl as we passed the Orchard House ๐Ÿ™‚ We even got to see Walden Pond – squee! We picnicked at the Old North Bridge and saw where the “Shot heard around the world” was fired.Lexington&Concord Collage

Day 8 we packed up and went to Salem, MA before heading into Maine. We had a lot of fun exploring Salem and Dot especially enjoyed the different sites since she had just learned about the Salem Witch Trials this last year. We also saw the House of Seven Gables and got to watch some Morris Dancers and launch a squealing rubber chicken into the air.

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From Salem we took a break from nonstop history and went to Two Lights Park in Maine and the Portland Headlight before landing at our campground for the night. It was pretty chilly – but at least it wasn’t raining! The next few days we kicked back and played, relaxed a little and had tons of fun.Maine Two Lights CollageMaine Portland Head Light Collage

We had a little visitor come checkout our tent – he was hiding between the top of the tent and the fly ๐Ÿ™‚

Day 9 we visited the amazingly beautiful Maine Botanical Gardens (the rhodedendrons were divine!) and played at Popham Beach

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Day 10 we switched campgrounds and spent time enjoying the area and exploring Lamoine State Park

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Day 11 – June 6th – our 19th Anniversary! We spent the day exploring Acadia National Park and wrapped up with a delicious lobster dinner while the girls took the boys to the park to play. (We made sure we saved some for them to try). Acadia is gorgeous and we wish we’d had more time to spend there – I kinda wish we’d arranged it to spend a little more time there, but now we know for the next time we go! It was pretty cold and really windy, but at least we haven’t had more rain! And I’d prefer cold and rainy to sweltering heat when we’re camping anyway. ย The kids kept hiding in the rocks to get out of the wind – it was pretty cute. And while Thunder Hole wasn’t booming it still had some pretty good eruptions and the kids got wet a few times – totally fun.

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Day 12 began the return journey home. We drove to Vermont and visited the birth place of Joseph Smith and then camped at a neat campground recommended by my brother, Kimball, called Moosalamoo.

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Day 13 we packed up, drove through the town where Kimball and his family used to live – a charming little place called Bristol, and then headed to Fort Ticonderoga by way of a little ferry. Fort Ticonderoga was a really neat place and the kids loved seeing all the demonstrations and learning about it. From there we drove to Crown Point to camp – not the best campground – it was really marshy everywhere so the bugs were absolutely awful. However frogs abounded, which I loved! ๐Ÿ™‚

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Day 14 we packed up again and headed to Palmyra. It was beautiful. We started with Hill Cummorah Visitor Center and took the steeper dirt path to the monument. Then we drove to the temple and walked around the temple grounds. From there we went to the Smith Farm and took the tour that guided us through both homes before walking into the Sacred Grove. It was peaceful and lovely. All of us took a few minutes for quite reflection and prayer. At one point we ended up all back at the van for lunch and realized Jacob wasn’t with us. We figured he had taken a wrong path in the Sacred Grove so Paul went to find him while the rest of us started lunch. We prayed that Paul would find him quickly and not too much longer they both appeared walking down the path.

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After lunch we drove to our campground in Hearts Content – a recreation area in the Alleghaney National Forest in Pennsylvania – it was a family favorite place. By the time we got there, thunderstorms were rolling in and it was late. I opted to sleep in the van so as to skip the hassel of filling the airmattress for just one night. So Paul and the kids slept in the tent while some pretty awesome thunderstorms rolled through the night. Paul said a few times all the kids were awake and huddled around, but they also thought it was pretty awesome.

Day 15 we took a little nature walk at Hearts Content before driving through my hometown of Grove City and then around Slippery Rock University where my father used to teach (and where my sibblings and I would have office chair races down the hallways…). Then we went to a family favorite place of my childhood – McConnells mill. The mill was even open, so the kids were excited to have a chance to explore and take a look inside. We walked across the red covered bridge and had a picnic in the picnic area.

Hearts Content&McConnells Mill CollageFrom there we drove to our friends home, The Fullers, in Butler. I am sad to say we had so much fun visiting that I didn’t think to get the camera out!

Day 16 we attended church with our friends – it was especially fun because they attend the same ward (congregation) that my parents did many years ago and many people remember them, so the girls had fun hearing stories about their grandparents – as did I! After lunch we drove home.

It was a wonderful trip – though exhausting! We were able to see and do so much and I hope the kids have some wonderful memories to keep with them. Above all I hope the kids also were able to develop a love for this amazing country we are so blessed to live in. I hope they have gained a deeper appreciation for all those who gave their lives to bring us the freedoms we now enjoy. I hope they gained a deeper appreciation for all those who continue to sacrifice so much to protect our freedoms. We are truly blessed.

 

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